Advising & Academic Services, 120 Bohannon Hall, 1207 Ordean Ct, Duluth, MN 55812
Phone: (218) 726-7156; Fax: (218) 726-7073; Email: cehspsa@d.umn.edu
When you believe that a student might benefit from professional counseling, speak directly to the student in a straight-forward, matter-of-fact fashion, showing simple and concrete concern. Never trick or deceive. Make it clear that this recommendation represents your best judgment based on your observations of the student's behavior. Be specific regarding the behaviors that have raised your concerns and avoid making generalizations or attributing anything negative to the individual's personality or character.
Except in cases of life threat to self or others, the option must be left open for the student to accept or refuse counseling. It is not uncommon for students to be anxious when being referred to a professional. If you have had positive feedback from other students about the Counseling Center, you could tell the student you have referred others there and that they found it helpful. If the student is skeptical or reluctant for whatever reason, simply express your acceptance of the feelings so that he or she feels free to reject the referral without rejecting you. Give the student room to consider alternatives by suggesting that perhaps you can talk about it later after the individual has had some time to think it over. If the student emphatically says "No," then respect the decision and again leave the situation open should he or she decide to reconsider. Above all, do not rush. Unless it is a matter of clear urgency, go slowly.
If the student agrees to the referral, place the call to the Counseling Center right then, with the student present. Usually, you'll make an appointment through the receptionist. A home and work number may be left and the student can also be called later if the counseling person cannot talk on the phone at that time. In most cases the student can be seen within two days. If it appears to be an emergency, ask to speak directly to a counselor or to have your call returned as soon as possible. If appropriate, suggest to the student that with his or her permission you will give information to the counselor about the nature of the problem. Have the student write down the counselor's name, address, extension, and the time and date of the appointment. Having a confirmed appointment sometimes makes the difference in whether or not the student goes to the appointment. Finally, follow up with the student at a later date to show your continued interest even of he or she did not accept a referral.
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