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Protection Against Acquaintance RapeKnow your sexual intentions and limits.
You have the right to say No to any unwanted sexual contact.
If you are uncertain about what you want, ask the man to respect
your feelings. Communicate your limits firmly and directly.
If you say No, say it like you mean it. don't give mixed messages. Back
up your words with a firm tone of voice and clear body language. Don't rely on ESP to get your message across. Don't assume that your date will automatically know how you feel or will
eventually get the message without your having to tell him. Remember that some men think that drinking heavily,
dressing provocatively, or going to a man's room,
indicates a willingness to have sex.
Be especially careful to communicate your limits and intentions
clearly in such situations. Listen to your feelings. If you feel uncomfortable or think you may be at risk, leave
the situation immediately and go to a safe place. Don't be afraid to make waves if you feel threatened. If
you feel you are being pressured or coerced into sexual activity against
your will, don't hesitate to state your feelings and get out of the situation.
Better a few minutes of social awkwardness or embarrassment than
the trauma of sexual assault. Attend large parties with friends you can trust.
Agree to look out for one another. Try
to leave with a group rather than alone or with someone you don't know very well.
This and other safety information is
available to yourself and others from the following organizations.
Please share these tips with your family and friends. JACOB
WETTERLING FOUNDATION 1-800-325-HOPE A print ready version of this document is available
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