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Positive Identity
Definition of Positive Identity Positive identity means that children feel good about themselves, are hopeful about their future, believe they can make a difference in the world around them, and feel connected to their family, culture, and tribe. The Elders say... Tell your children when you are pleased with them. “To help your children develop positive self-esteem, praise them. Don’t condemn them for mistakes, but rather assure them that they are learning and that they are not expected to be experts the first time. Really praise them when they accomplish something.”
Encourage the interests children discover on their own, and teach kids to be authentic and true to themselves. “When a child wants to be someone else rather than who they are, tell them” no” and “just be yourself”.” “To help kids develop positive self-esteem, we have to encourage them to be themselves, and that who they are is ok. Help the children succeed, even if it is only in small successes, and be sure to praise them…. Spend time with them to help them discover the uniqueness and strengths.” |
