SMALL HAPPINESS (VC0888)


THEMES AND DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:


POSSIBLE ANSWERS TO DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

It seems pretty clear that the social structure portrayed in the film oppresses women. The concept of oppression lies at the heart of development, so we need to get clear about it. So what is the nature of the oppression, exactly? What makes it oppression as opposed to, say, just differentiated gender roles?

Oppression: unequal life chances; lower wages; fixed roles; physical oppression (bound feet; responsibility for birth control measures); isolation in husband's home; control and abuse by mother-in-law; being sold; responsibility for job AND family.

It is oppression instead of just differentiated (but equal) gender roles because in the original position people wouldn't be indifferent between genders.

* We also need to understand how oppression persists. So: If the social structure is oppressive, why have women been unable to change the system for so many millennia? That is, what keeps the system rolling along from generation to generation?

Note the overall sequence: each woman is born not a member of the family but a guest; only route out is to get married and leave; sent to husband's house and isolated; threatens mother-in-law's relations with her son; only route out is to have a son; lavish protection on him, the source of her status, and disregard the daughters; raise him; tyrannize his wife in turn, demanding that she have a son. And so the circle completes itself.

Look at the psychological effects on both women and men. From birth women are regarded as worth less than men, and they see only one opportunity to succeed (within the system as they find it, anyway). They conclude that they ARE worth less than men, that they deserve to serve men.

From birth men are taught that they're the cat's meow. Who wouldn't agree with that? They are taught that they're special, and it takes a singularly aware and self-confident man to reject the social system that gives them such status, whose consciousness can transcend the omnipresent lesson that women's perspective is not an important one to consider.

* The concepts of "institutionalized oppression" and "internalized oppression" are useful in understanding the nature and persistence of oppression.

>> Institutionalized oppression is oppression that results from institutions (i.e., other people) having control over you.

>> Internalized oppression is oppression that oppressed people themselves have "bought into". (For example, some women believe that women really are inferior to men.)

What institutional oppression do you see at work in the film? What internalized oppression do you see? What evidence do you see that people are breaking out of those oppressions?

Institutionalized oppression: Women responsible for birth control. Leaders are all men (except for specifically "women's" concerns; women are all workers.

* Institutionalized and internalized oppression usually feed on each other: the institutional oppression produces oppressed people who see the oppression as a reality about themselves rather than the society; this internalized oppression justifies the existing social order as being "the natural, inevitable order of things" instead of something humans make and thus can unmake. Any theory of development has to deal with both these oppressions simultaneously. In other words, development has to involve changes in both individuals and societies together.

* What development seems to be occurring in this society, according to the film? How do you justify your calling it development? In what sense, if any, is it POLITICAL development?

No more foot binding. No more arranged marriages.


LECTURE ON "SMALL HAPPINESS"

[Put on board:]

* INSTITUTIONALIZED OPPRESSION

* INTERNALIZED OPPRESSION

* DEONTIC VS. ARETAIC JUDGMENTS

* Some of you may have seen this in other courses with different perspectives on it, but I show it for a very specific reason: To show the nature of culture and how oppression works.

* Some elements I hope you'll get out of this video and our discussion:

* As portrayed in the video, are the women in this culture oppressed, and if so, how? List as many aspects of the oppression as you can.

* We term these forms of oppression, institutionalized oppression, because they are embodied in social institutions and practices, not any particular person's evil.

* How do you know it's oppression instead of just differentiated (but equal) gender roles? How do you know it's oppression when the women don't seem to mind it, when they agree to it?

It is oppression instead of just differentiated (but equal) gender roles because in the original position people wouldn't be indifferent between genders and even further, in the original position people would not choose to live in a society where there were such fixed roles, since they wouldn't know if they would like that role or not.

* What maintains this oppression from generation to generation for — as best we can tell — several thousand years?

Note the overall sequence: each woman is born a second-class citizen of her family: not a member of the family but a guest; her only route to social acceptance and personal happiness is to get married and leave her family of origin. She goes to her husband's house and is isolated and not allowed to speak (and in particular to protest, to press her claims); given that this is an arranged marriage and that she has no earlier contact with the groom, she comes to the marriage without even the security of a personal / love tie with her husband to counteract the existing mother/son tie; nevertheless, her presence threatens her mother-in-law's relations with her son; her only route to social acceptance and personal happiness is to bear a son. If a son is born, she lavishes protection on him, the source of her status, and disregards her daughters. She raises him, sees him married, and tyrannizes his wife in her turn, demanding that the wife have a son. And so the circle completes itself.

Look at the psychological effects on both women and men. From birth women are regarded as worth less than men, and they see only one opportunity to succeed (within the system as they find it, anyway). They conclude that they ARE worth less than men, that they deserve to serve men.

From birth men are taught that they're the cat's meow. Who wouldn't accept being treated that way? They are taught that they're special, and it takes a singularly aware and self-confident man to reject the social system that gives them such status, whose consciousness can transcend the omnipresent lesson that women's perspective is not an important one to consider.

* Note key role of both physical and intellectual isolation, which corresponds to the means of liberation: naming one's condition ("feudal") and solidarity.

* Why, if they're oppressed, do women (e.g., mothers-in-law) participate in this oppression by criticizing women when they themselves were criticized, etc.  [We term this INTERNALIZED oppression, when a group buys into the oppression by believing they deserve to be treated in this oppressive manner, or that this manner of treatment is "natural", the natural order of things.)]

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Author:  Stephen Chilton [email]  |  Last Modified:  2004-12-07
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